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Scott Boddie's avatar

Yes. Those are actions. We were already wounded. We were already sitting. We are already staring at them. It's time for the NEXT move. We can evaluate how long we allowed ourselves to stay in those first three.

To me this is a clear case of how to recognize Fixed /Scarcity /Victim mindsets. Someone who chooses to dwell in the clouded space of what they can complain about - what's missing, what things keep happening to them - refuses to activate gratitude in order to recognize the abundance they already have. Unknowingly, they drive themselves deeper and deeper into a victim's hole, and the longer they stay there the more likely events and conditions become self-inflicted.

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Arnaly Arriaga Blanco's avatar

I sometimes look at my legs and find bruises or cuts that I can’t remember doing them. When I think about them, then the memories come to mind. I think that’s what Murakami talks about. Don’t keep looking at your wounds, they’ll keep you back. If you forget about them, you’ll keep walking towards good things.

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