People Your Age

A lesson in authenticity.

Original photo by David E. Marlow Copyright©2019

What Green Slime Taught Me About Being Authentic

Years ago, I read something from Stephen Chbosky that rang true in both the thought and the admission that he didn't understand his feelings.

This week I was reminded of what he said and his feeling. Maybe this speaks to where you are as well.

"So, this is my life. And I want you to know that I am both happy and sad,

and I am still trying to figure out how this could be."

Stephen Chbosky

We all get plenty of advice on authenticity. So much, in fact, I'm concerned that the value of being authentic is being diluted by becoming 'a thing', a buzzword.

The quote by Chbosky highlights the importance of accepting and embracing our true selves, even if we are still figuring things out—not hiding or denying parts of our life that we may feel ashamed of or uncomfortable admitting.

📌 The truth is authenticity is tough. Let’s talk about the more profound meaning and connection to Ikigai.

Here’s a personal example…

When I first started running, I needed a new pair of shoes. I'm fortunate enough to have one of the top-running stores in the country right near my home.

They brought out a pair of white running shoes that felt fabulous. They were also perfect for my running form.

I asked the person helping me if they came in any other colors. She hinted that most people my age liked white, but she'd look. 😎

Being a new runner, I might have gone with the white, not wanting to be showing off.

Instead of worrying about appearances, I thought about what I wanted.

I wanted something other than white, not to show off, rather to express myself.

She came back with blue, red, and slime neon green. Guess which one I went with. Yep, slime neon green.

At first, I was a bit self-conscious about being an older guy and a new runner wearing 'look at me' shoes.

🌀 Then I embraced it.

I can't tell you how many compliments I got on those shoes from other runners and passers-by on the roads.

I wore the old ones when I did presentations at work, and they became my 'brand.'

The first picture is one of my latest pairs. The second is what the original Slime Green looked like. I've not purchased an ordinary pair since.

Being authentic is acting congruently with your values, and most people aren't willing to go deep enough to examine and ultimately realize the person they present isn't their authentic self.

Are you ready to go beyond the buzzword and live your authentic life?

Original photo by David E. Marlow Copyright©2015