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Naomi Migliacci's avatar

Happy Father's Day!

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David Marlow's avatar

Thank you, Naomi!

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Carol Brown's avatar

That was lovely.

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David Marlow's avatar

Thank you, Carol. 🙏🏻

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Bernadette  Brady's avatar

I hope you have a lovely day, celebrating being a dad and grandad, and remembering your own father. Those we love are always with us, living in our memories and in our bones. Go well.

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David Marlow's avatar

Thank you for the well wishes, Bernadette. It was a marvelous day. I'm blessed.

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Federica Minozzi's avatar

I constantly catch myself acting like my mom in the tiniest ways.

The way she stands with her hands on her hips while sunbathing in the water near the shore.

The way she makes a little pout when she's watching my dad doing something dangerous on a ladder.

The way she rubs her hands together after taking out the trash, before washing them.

I do all of that, too.

I can only imagine what an enormous amount of themselves they passed on to me, without me noticing. This is one of the thoughts that makes me think it'd be nice to have a little one.

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David Marlow's avatar

It is amazing how much like our parents we can be. It seems even more apparent as I get older. I become more like my dad every day. Children are a lot of work and an even greater blessing.

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Scott Boddie's avatar

Our dad's sound a lot alike, David. I hope they get to meet one day. Whether we realize it or not, we create film reels that live on and replay in the minds of our kids. Hopefully it gives them a head start on the things they needed to learn, if not a preview of what not to do so as to be prepared for it in a way to respond differently than we had.

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even happier's avatar

Humanity is beautiful. We simply do what we see makes a human, and then later, we try to improve upon the things we notice and suffer or thrive from the things we don't.

May we continue to honor those men who have touched our lives.

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David Marlow's avatar

Beautifully expressed. 🙏🏻

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Opmerker's avatar

"There are moments in your life, you know, the ones where a bigger reality becomes clear."

One of the most profound for me was the moment I first saw my son holding his son.

In a flash, I thought, "I once held him as he holds his son; and someday, he'll be me, watching his son holding his first born.

I could also see myself through my grandfather's eyes when I was the newborn in arms. I felt time stretch and compress in this glimpse of generations past, present, and future. Thinking of it still triggers strong heimwee.

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David Marlow's avatar

Like a single moment in the middle of two eternal lines.

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Teyani Whitman's avatar

Deeply moving David. Makes me miss my dad too

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David Marlow's avatar

There's an old song that speaks to being someone others could be lonely for. I'd say our dads achieved that goal.

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David Regehr 🇨🇦's avatar

Thanks David. That very much reminds me of my own father. I am glad how I grew to emulate him.

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David Marlow's avatar

That's a blessing indeed.

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Peter Stipan's avatar

Happy Father’s Day Dave! And to all the Fathers embracing life, family and Ikigai today. Going fishing with the kids & grandkids. Enjoy your day!

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David Marlow's avatar

Sounds like the perfect day!

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Larry Huber's avatar

As always, a sparkling tribute for (and from) someone special.

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David Marlow's avatar

Thank you, Larry. 🙏🏻💙

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Arnaly Arriaga Blanco's avatar

I love it! Happy Father's Day!

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David Marlow's avatar

Thank you, Arnaly!

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john ratcliffe's avatar

I love Cats in the Cradle too. Let me add In the Living Years by Mike and the Mechanics and Father and Son by Cat Stevens to your playlist. Happy Father’s Day.

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David Marlow's avatar

Both are excellent additions to the Father's Day playlist.

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247kath's avatar

Heartfelt memories of your dad❤️

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247kath's avatar

Heartfelt memories of your dad❤️

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David Marlow's avatar

🙏🏻💙

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Judi Bailey, M.Ed's avatar

Thank you for your memories.

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David Marlow's avatar

You are most welcome, Judi. I'm glad you enjoyed reading about them.

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