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Deborah J Holliday MSW's avatar

To live out my Ikigai, I needed to Kintsugi myself. I am a masterpiece-in-the-making, recovering the treasure of my true self buried by pirates in my life. I celebrate and reintegrate every piece of myself with gold that brings me closer to my Ikigai.

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David Marlow's avatar

Those are both apt metaphors for the Ikigai journey. Here's to uncovering the buried treasure and using the 'gold' to fill in the cracks!

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Emma Quinn's avatar

So many thoughts about this. I have mostly experienced life as a dance of light. I love the questions this post provokes. I'm going to think about it more.

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David Marlow's avatar

That's fabulous to hear. Enjoy the reflection Emma.

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Emma Quinn's avatar

Thank you, David. I am! One thing it has already led to is signing up with the Optimize Heroic App. Do you know it?

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Joe Iannone's avatar

I am with you David as the directions and motivation I am headed towards are a legacy of kindness and generosity as shown by the ultimate teacher! IHS

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Rijon Erickson's avatar

You can opt out of as many finite games as you like, as long as you remember this -

“There is but one infinite game.” - James P. Carse, “Finite and Infinite Games”

A must read if you wish to invoke the game metaphor.

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David Marlow's avatar

Indeed. 🙏🏻Thanks for adding that to the conversation today Rijon!

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Sachin Gupta's avatar

Tired myself, coming to think now what am I bloody running after .. what is it ..

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David Marlow's avatar

That is often the first step on the Ikigai journey. 🙏🏻

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Sachin Gupta's avatar

Yeah.. kind of swinging between my own aspirations and wanting to shut down everything and reflect on what do I want .. what can I do . What shud I do and shud I do actually that I want .. wants and desired or need ...

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David Marlow's avatar

🙏🏻

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Girija's avatar

Very powerful question here David. Indeed, we are all part of games, and the challenge is that, most of the time, there is no winning. Because as soon as you think you are, you suddenly get pushed into a more complex game, which makes it harder to navigate..

Realising this is what gave me the courage to leave the corporate world last year, to finally follow my passion..

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David Marlow's avatar

Indeed. Less but better as Dieter Rams said.

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